Saturday, December 22, 2007

MIS @ NUS

Finishing my masters within the next half a year at the National University of Singapore.

I started Masters of Information Systems at The University of Melbourne in 2002, as a year and a half degree for a full time student. Things got interesting - to say the least :) - and now I'm aiming to complete the 'outstanding' degree by May 2008. Thanks to Universitas 21, I'll be doing a minor thesis at The Department of Sociology at NUS (subject to approval from uniMelb).

During the last semester that finished in November, I informally attended the postgraduate subject (Sociological Theory and Social Reality) on theories in Sociology. The reason why it was not counted towards the completion of my MIS, is that the administration at UniMelb took too long - about three months - to sort out the enrolment. They concluded that if I want to complete my degree at NUS, as opposed to uniMelb, I'll have to do 3 subjects instead of two. I wasn't happy about that, but it is what it is... The one good thing in all that, and unusual, is that at NUS school fees are charged per semester, as opposed to per subject. This meaning that even though I had to do 3 subjects, by doing them all in one semester, my fees would be considerably less then at uniMelb.

Then last month when I thought about which three subjects should I take. The idea of attending uni three nights a week between 6:30 and 9:30 together w/ the full time job just did not 'digest', as I don't want to completely rearrange things on my plate. Luckily, I remembered the possibility of a minor thesis, which was discussed with DIS before leaving.

Next semester is approaching quickly, it starts on the 14th Jan. To enrol officially by getting my minor thesis approved in time, I'll have to do more then just wait to get an approval that I have requested at the beginning of December.

can...!

Friday, November 30, 2007

birth-month shopping

After one year plus here, I get to taste some of the famous Singapore culture 1st hand; the shopping culture:

Save from losing/breaking stuff, I should be shopping-free for a while. This being the month I was born in, it felt kind of like receiving lots of prezos... - albeit, most from myself...

At the beginning of the month, with few of running colleagues from work, I went to the New Balance shop - the marathon running colleague has 40% discount during November. I am a new NB fan. At the shop they got us running on a treadmill to determine a correct shoe. I got two pairs and running shorts.

Few weeks later, for birthday I got the watch. Also got the new jeans that have been in the closet for couple of months, finally trimmed (my ass size/lag ration makes it impossible to get a new pants that fit 'out of a box').

As the phone died the in washing machine, last week I got Nokia E51 - awesome.

Then on the weekend, after a year plus since having initial idea, I got the Boston Birkenstok - perfect for flat footed teacher, also quicker at getting ready in the morning as no need for socks. To make the best of the shop wide 40% discount, I also got Teva sandals, swimming gaggols and two pairs of Mizuno running shorts. My Dad´s birthday is coming next month, so (at danger of ruining the surprise) I got him a pair of NB as well.

Getting a good use from all this goodies, will make it a happy year...!

Monday, November 19, 2007

Oct-Nov bullets

-Another round around the Sun to be added to the total tally. Goes w/o saying, it was quick, very quick, guess the quickest yet.

- Rodo Mile's dear wife gave birth to their 1st child today at 6am CET. My niece Petra was born on a very lucky day :) - Zivila...!

-I moved to the apartment next door. The new guys are great and all.. We have swimming, bBall in common amongst many other things, but I still like the have my own privacy, my own mess, my own choice... guess I'm too old for all that flatmate thing...

- As there is 8 new IF around, there's always choice of doing something w/ someone... : e.g. throwing a party across two 3-bedroom apartments and the level 8 lift lobby that is in between them:


or travelling: Cycling trip at Pulao Bin, a small island of Singapore's east coast:


- I completed my 1st semester at NUS, albeit just as an outsider sitting in at the Sociological Theory and Social Reality .

- The competition at NTU, I took the students for was really good. On one side we were lucky at time, on the other quite unlucky at the last round to finish 4th overall out of 12 schools in our division: 1% point difference behind the 3rd place, and 5% behind the 2nd. So close yet so far away... On the bright side we had fun preparing for it.

- I'm getting more and more into running. Went for another 10km run where we as a corporate team (NP) finished 3rd. This got us a $50 reward each. The run was huge w/ some 10000 participants. My time was 1h. In the another event, we as the School of ICT won the Poly's inter-department relay.

- ...and we came 4th at Poly's inter-department dragon boat race:


- Last Saturday (the 17th), I spent more then half an hour looking for my phone. I found it at the bottom of the washing machine. It was playing submarine. After blow drying it, the SIM card was the only thing that survived. Unfortunately, all my contact info was saved in the phone memory - all lost. The phone has picked the nice smell of the softener :)

...!

Saturday, September 22, 2007

run Zo run

Distance: 10km
Time: 47 min and 51 sec
Position: 52/232

At first, I did it only for fun, not caring about placement. But once I figured that I actually run as a representative of the school, I decided to run as quickly as I can.

The 1st proper run was just few weeks back, after I got back from the brief Cro visit. Though I swim basically every day, I haven't run at all in the few months before the run. And so it was rather crazy to set a goal of keeping up with marathon running colleague, even though he said that the run was only a recovery run for him as he just ran a half-marathon few days earlier.

First 5kms was nice and easy; the last couple was a real struggle accompanied with a, now funny, in-between-ear conversations about stop-cannot stop... I give credit to the ego for not letting me stop, and finish 25sec behind my marathon colleague. As far as I can remember, this was the most exhausting physical thing I ever did... - nothing left in the tank - nice...!
From NP running

Thursday, September 20, 2007

Paid holiday - ctd

It still feels like a paid holiday, I (still) like it...

My new contact kicked in from the start of this month. When I got back from Thailand holiday, it was nice to see the bank account balance after the 4 pay-checks have been payed in at once (including 3 months of gratuity at the end of the first contract).


CONTRACT NEGOTIATION

For all that negotiation fuss, I got the new mattress, and a choice to fly to Croatia instead of to Australia. Also, few hours of 'scolding' by the school Director and 'black listed' myself, so that, IMO, there is higher possibility of snowing in Spora, then me receiving an anther contract extension come next February/March.


LIVING ARRANGEMENT

I got news that I would be getting two flat-mates. One would have been ok, two - not acceptable. Having been accustom to the freedom and comfort of living in the huge 3-bedroom apartment by myself, and having an opportunity to host visitors, I didn't like the idea of having to share it with two fresh Princeton graduates. Though we might become the best of friends, I still prefer if they live the next door. So I'll probably end up moving out into an apartment in which an air-conditioning does not work, and a possibility of having to share it with students - it's about possibility vs certainty: a student/s might come for a semester, roommates are confirmed for one year.


NEW LAPTOP

Couple of months back, as though Santa heard me, I got one of those two-core, w/ 1G of ram (most ppl got the newer model with 2G of ram - so much for Director's favorite slogan during 'scolding' of 'we are all equal'). Though, I was pissed at times with the slowness of this current machine (which I am still using in the office, as I haven't registered the new one which I am now using at home) ...all of a sudden, since I got the new one, I got much more patient with the old one - guess convenience/choice of having two machines must of had something to do with it.


CURRENT TASK

Currently, I have some tasks in preparation of the teaching materials for the next semester.

Though most time (should be) is spend on the RFID project for the coming 'Open House'. Projects objectives are: tracking the movement of potential students around the facilities, and correlating students' showing at the Open House with the eventual student enrollments. Also, to enhance students' experience and help with the management of the event.

In addition to this, I am exploring the possibility of using Second Life to teach OO concepts.


NEXT SEMESTER

-Teaching
It starts on 15th October. I'll be again teaching OOAD2 (Object Oriented Analysis and Design 2) and a new subject for me, Project Management - both of them have over lapping content, also they share the dryness of Sahara.

-Competition
Together with Patrice, a colleague, leading a team of three students to a Java programming/strategy competition at NTU - virtualXgame; and problem solving by writing an algorithm at NUS - algoMania. Team name is Machinegun; with a motto, coined by JackKee: 'for truth and love, justice and hope; for the future' ...!

Tuesday, September 18, 2007

BS Father

Here Napoleon Hill summarizes his lessons in 7 minutes. No need to spend time and money on all that other hippie-happy BS materials as they are all - mainly just - repackaging the same ideas that he 1st published back in 1937.

You like it, but it's still bit confusing. No worries, here's the elaboration of the main points from the book - bullet format, simple...!

Ps: As I have mentioned before when writing about The Secret, I would not be surprised if my religious friends out there might say that they know of an other book(s) which far out dates Napoleon Hill's one - I would love to hear your comment on it - again, this is (only) a personal perspective.

Monday, September 17, 2007

Pessimism to Opptimism - in seconds

Last night, the net connection was not working down here in the lobby. System message was that my lap top's IP was not registered - thought they changed some settings while I was in Thailand, and that reason is behind the fact that I have not registered my new lap top yet.

Now, got back from dinner, and this is my in-between-ear conversation:

- [picked up the laptop] going down only for a while to check the mail/news
- no point going, the net doesn't work down there
- only one way to find out
- if it didn't work last night, it's not going to work tonight
- what's the point of NOT going?
- Pessimism...!

Sunday, September 16, 2007

Mama visit

Mum got paid out at work (i.e. fired) so she decided to pay a visit to a family and friends back home in Croatia, including a stop over visit on the way there, and back, to her precious (i.e. moe).

Back in mid July when she first got here I gave her my - now, a very custom and routine - tour of Spora. And for her way back, I decided on something lazy, somewhere in SE Asia. Since she broke her leg on her second day back home, the resort on Lanta Yai, near by Krabi, in Thailand, turned out to be a perfect place for a week of rehab - pool exercises.

Unlike first time in Thailand, when I travelled around with my sister, this was a great week of resting: lots of sleeping, having chats with Mum and reading the book. Looking back at it, my Mum's attitude and spirit during the holiday was very impressive, not just because of the double fracture on her right ankle - one of the worst broken-bones type of injuries that have rather long and uncertain recovery; but even more, when taking into consideration the attitude of the environment in which she was brought up , and her own history with it.

zivilaDraga...!


Ps: I meant to say '...visit to one of her precious' but it just didn't sound as good - sorry Yogic :)

Saturday, September 08, 2007

Sunny skies

I like the mix of tasks that currently take up my time:
To learn and balance them better - to schedule better - is still a work in progress...

every day in every way...!

Tuesday, September 04, 2007

Monday, September 03, 2007

Turist => pay

Through all the SE Asia travels I've done so far it has been the same... after a bus arrives at an destignation it gets swarmed by taxi/bike drivers offering a ride and accomodation. ...Just people trying to make a leaving, nothing unusual there...

As I was just finishing of the post about my Vietnam trip, I got remained of a bit of an unusual situation that happened once I got of the bus in Mui-Ne, that earned me a nick name 'Sheep' with the locals for the duration of the stay.

As the bus ride form HCMC was some 6h, first thing I wanted to do was to get to a toilet... so somehow I comunicated to one of the many guys wanting to pick up tursts that I'll be back... Then while making a way from a toilet to a bar to grab some water I made an eye contact with that guy in the group, indicating to wait a bit longer... After I was finally ready to sort out the accommodation, and was going back to meet this group, some 5-10 of them now. As I was approaching one of them came forward with his right hand high, as though to give me a 'high five' ... I extended my hand forward, palm facing up, upon which he slapped it pretty hard, while giving me a visit-card of some hostel. Then he grabbed my arm and started dragging me, at the same time saying something in Vietnamese... I'd guess something along the lines of 'this one's mine'. Naturally, I didn't want to have any of this, and I stopped, trying to explain that I'm not a 'live stock'... I was using body language and cow, horse, sheep sounds... Though, in that initial moment I got a bit upset, it turned out to be a good laughter for all. And since they are all staying around the place where that guy I made an initial contact with took me, around there I was know as Sheep, something sounding like:

beyNee...!

Sunday, September 02, 2007

Congrats to Marina&Mile

So I got there on Thursday evening. Spent Friday in Zaton with Uncle - he's trying to complete the house over there (been at it 10+ years, that's how things still are over there...) - and his family. That was my only dip into the wonderful Adriatic sea.

In the evening we went to the village (Rastevic; 5km from Benkovac towards Zadar) , they went to say good-byes to all the family before the morning trip back to Germany, and I stayed there for the night, before morning ride to Pag, an island some 50km away where the wedding was taking place.

Wedding and all was just nice... I was rather still buggered by the loooong trip, jetlagged... and later drunk with bit of upset stomach - to much of prsutto and paski sir, so that gave me a great excuse not to jump-around to 'good old' Cro music.

When I woke up on Sunday morning, I felt great... energy to the full, no jetlag, no nothing - thought, it must of been all that Malvazija which I filtered though my body that did the trick. Spend the Sunday with cousins in the village.

Monday I was around the town, meeting with some few friends at the old neighborhood over there. For dinner, met with my freshly married cousin.

Tuesday morning at 7:30 I was on the bus, on my way back.

Reached Spora Wed evening, back at work Thursday morning.

quick&sweet...!

Got approval to go back home-home for cousin's wedding

I understood the rule 'no one takes leave during the exam period, unless there is a valid concern related to the imitate family. ' That being said, I was still surprised that the point that got me the approval of the leave, from that beautiful eM, was actually just a side point relating my Mum's holiday mishap:

- Also, currently my Mum is visiting over there as well. She landed in Croatia on the 17th of Jul, then she broke her leg on the 20th of Jul. Now she's bed tied w/ a cast on her left leg till the last week of her holiday - 1st week of September. As an added bonus, it would be nice if I could pay her a visit as well.

I've ended up sending that eM cos Director, after telling me on Friday to come and see her on Monday, took the annual lave herself on Monday - surely it was something related to her parents (apparently she lives with them; never married) or siblings.

I got an reply to the eM on Tuesday, telling me to come and see her. Thought she did not want to tell me 'no' via eM. Again, I was wrong. She wanted to once again reiterate all the many points she already told me after the contract negotiation process and the mis-understanding caused during leave approval for the Vietnam trip... She also told me that HR is still upset about IF who caused so much trouble.... To which I replied that if they are still talking about that insignificant instance, then they must be bored over there at HR - she did not find it funny - As a back paddle, I continued: 'I mean what really happened, I asked for something they said no, what's a big deal.' She had nothing to say - guess she couldn't, cos it's the truth.

So after leaving all that piljavina behind her... or in these terms, after scolding - they love that word round here - I get the approval for the leave on Friday and Monday... Luckily my RO is understanding so I get couple of extra days on the credit. [Worth mentioning is that, if it wasn't for the need to swap my exam invigilation duty, Director, nor anyone else, would have had to know about my tip].

Then there was a race to get the air-ticket, I was booking and canceling flights from Saturday onwards, as I couldn't get the approval. Prices were all they way up to $4.5K, where as usual would have be around $1.3K.

Finally on Wendesday I got $1.5K flight for that evening, 5h wait in Instambul - can! RO gives me ride to Little India to pick up the ticket. Then it was on to clearing out all the things and making sure no one misses me (all but one cleared, there was one re-marking of the Final Year Project demonstration, that someone had to sit instead of me as a second marker) I made it to the airport at the - now usual time - 20min before the departure. 32 hours later I got to Zaton (little tourist village near Zadar where my Uncle has a house - Mum was there).

Tuesday, August 28, 2007

1st Anniversary

Year ago today, I landed at Changi airport, for the start of my bigOE.

Though I thought I'll get out for few drinks tonight and celebrate, instead 'I'll just follow the law' and go once again thorough the exam marking... I have to go though all of the 321 exam scripts tonight, cos they did not like how I added up the numbers... I did not show the break down of the mark for the (sequence) diagram part of the question; after few ticks and crosses, I just added the marks in my head... - or actually worse, I added the negative marks then deducted them from the total mark (apparently that's a big no no, cos we 'award marks, we don't take the marks away' - hmmm what is the difference 15-7=8, and 0+8 is still = 8!? isn't it???). One would think that others - cross-checkers and cross-checker-checkers - can do that as well, should anyone of them end up looking at it THAT closely in the 1st place... - though, I must say that after one year, I should not be surprised if they look at it using electronic microscope.

Here's to the next 365 Spora days,

Cheers...!

Monday, August 13, 2007

Going back home-home for Cousin's Wedding

I asked once, and she said no, so I ask again - who could say no to this one:

Hi Director,

Sorry to disturb you on your off day.

Now that I know my exam time table, here's the situation:

- I am able to clear ALL my teaching responsibilities, so neither would any of my students, nor colleagues be inconvenienced w/ my absence on the Friday (17th) and Monday (20th) of August.

- Just in case, staff has my hand phone number (roaming enabled) and students have my hotmail account (easy to access from any internet point).

- Even though my cousin is not my immediate brother, but rather a son of my mum's sister, I am sure you can appreciate that family ties, and bonds between people in general, at times cannot be quantified by the simple formal definitions. Especially in a particular situation such as our one: this Aunty of mine was never married, and she and her son lived near by my parents place. This meant that as kids my cousin has spent lost of time at our place, playing with my sister and me. This was especially true during the five years of Balkan war, when as kids we didn't go to school, nor played on the playgrounds that much, but spend lots of time in the basement instead. Well the point is that we spend lots of time together. Hence, even though formally he is my cousin, to me he is much more - a brother.

- Also, currently my Mum is visiting over there as well. She landed in Croatia on the 17th of Jul, then she broke her leg on the 20th of Jul. Now she's bed tied w/ a cast on her left leg till the last week of her holiday - 1st week of September. As an added bonus, it would be nice if I could pay her a visit as well.

- As the wedding is on the next weekend (18th -19th), and I need 20 hours of travel time between Zadar (Croatia Cost line) to Spore. I am ok for my exam, on 23rd, though I cannot get back in time for my invigilation on 20th, so I'll need to swap the invigilation duty with my roommate Anand. Needles to say, a fellow ICT-an is happy to help.

As I need to finalise my air-fare ticket as soon as possible, I would like to thank you for your understanding and prompt reply in advance. Should you want to discuss the matter further, please give me a call on these numbers.

Appreciated.

Sincerely,

Z

The Secret

...revealed: "You are a living magnet. What you attract into your life is in harmony with your dominant thoughts." - Brian Tracy

Vesna recommended the DVD, I couldn't find it, but I got the book - ta Yogic. Like she said, it's just your usual positive, hippie stuff. Just the type of BS I like.

Couple more videos that are worth while are: one endorsing it, and funny one against it. Of course, it was on Oprah as well, twice.

The hole story revolves around the law of attraction, and can be summarised by the old saying of be careful what you wish for; you just might get it. So this is hardly anything new. According to this video, these guys have been teaching it for a long while (forum). Tony Robins has been playing the same (MUST-SEE) tune as well. I came across it, for the first time, in the book, originally published in 1930's, Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. And anyone with any familiarity with any of the religions, would probably say something along the lines of 'tell me something I don't know'.

Through the years, I became big on the positive psychology. Here are the few quotes that I picked up from sources other the 'the secret', and are all in support of it. It would be nice if you can add some more info that is either in support, or even better, against it. In summary, they say that:
Whatever you think, that's who you are and how it is.

"Thoughts are energy, and you can make or break your world by thinking." - Susan Taylor

"The belief in a thing makes it happen." - Frank Lloyd Wright

"Whether you think you can or think you can't, you're right." - Henry Ford

"The ancestor of every action is a thought. ... A man is what he thinks about all day long. ... To believe your own thought, to believe that what is true for you in your private heart is true for all men--that is genius." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

"Of the many earnest, and how earnest, people we may observe reading, attending lectures, studying and practicing disciplines, devoting their energies to the attainment of a liberation which is by definition unattainable, how many are not striving via the ego-concept which is itself the only barrier between what they think they are and that which they wish to become but always have been and always will be?" - Why Lazurus Laughed by Wei Wu Wei

"A human being is a part of the whole called by us "Universe," a part limited in time and space. He experiences himself, his thoughts and feelings as something separated from the rest- a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness. This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires and to affection for a few persons nearest to us. Our task must be to free ourselves from this prison by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty." - Albert Einstein

"If both the past and the external world exist only in the mind, and if the mind itself is controllable – what then?" George Orwell

"Change your thoughts and you change your world." - Norman Vincent Peale

justInCase...!


UPDATED, 24th Nov 08: list of quotes from The Secret

Sunday, August 12, 2007

beHappy



...no matter the situation, it's always good to get reminded of this one - thanks Nat.

smile...!

Tuesday, July 03, 2007

Contract Negotiation

Take it or leave it - that's the summary.

I have no negotiating power; my picture is not on the school posters ala fellow Ozzy's (guess who), and I want to stick around for a while more.

Within the first month here, I found out that some internationals with less (teaching) experience and less (university) qualifications have TWICE as much as I do.

So naturally, a while after they extended an offer to renew the contract - which was back in Feb, just before the Thailand trip - I went to my Reporting Officer with request that was pitched as:
  1. want more involvement, and thus
  2. want better renumeration terms.
Someone did say 'watch what u wish for'... as only half of my wish got true.

The quick response from RO was that the school has no Visiting Lecturer openings. The VL is the contractual scheme that I would have to shift to in order to get more money. As this is black and white world - not even a shade of a gray; not to talk bout a rainbow - my current IF-I-was-a-teacher scheme is what it is. In order words the policies are written in stone. And since I am not a PR, the story ends there.

Sure enough, even though everyone told me so, to make sure I had to check that 'yes' the story really does end there, and so I took it to HR... After the informal chat, the process went to the e-mail:

06/11/2007 05:58 PM
Subject: IF new contract

Hi SY,

As discussed earlier:

Thank you for the opportunity to extend my stay at Ngee Ann.

Though, it came to my attention that my experience and qualifications are more aligned with the requirements of a VL position. And as you know, the actual daily responsibilities between a VL and IF are virtually the same, whereas a difference in contract remuneration can be very significant. Taking this into consideration, I am sure, it was no surprise to you that I have acquired about the possible VL openings.

Unfortunately, as there are no current VL positions that I could be considered for, I would like to have the terms of my new contract re-evaluated.

Moreover, I would like to draw to your attention to the couple of things that are making the news. In addition to a standard yearly inflation rate, this year there will be the increase in GST. Also, the banks have proposed the increase of the fees charged to retailers for NETS services - it is feared that this will lead to a further increase of the prices. In light of this, I don't just feel as though I am currently being underpaid, I feel as though I am taking the pay cut for the new contract.

Even though I get the positive feedback from students and colleagues, and I like teaching at Ngee Ann, I would appreciate if you can explore possible avenues that could make me feel more appreciated.

Sincerely,

Z
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- upon arriving back from Vietnam I had the letter on the desk stating: "We have considered your request very carefully but regret that we are unable to revise our offer. Hence, our offer dated 11 May 07 remains unchanged."

- the day after seeing the latter, I had the meeting with HR Manager.
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06/27/2007 10:15 AM
Subject: Air Passage

Good Morning Z

We refer to your request for a return air passage (2-way airticket) under your current contract.

We are sorry to inform you that we are unable to accede to your request . However, approval has been granted to allow you to use your flight elgibility for SIN/Croatia/SIN, your original homecountry instead of SIN/MEL/SIN.

Do contact me if you need further clarfications on the above,

Regards
SY
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28/06/2007 09:07 AM
Subject
Re: Air Passage

Good Morning SY,

Thanks for your prompt reply, which - it will be a no surprise to you - I find disappointing, as:
  • When flying to Europe/Australia from Singapore, the difference in air fare ticket price between one way and two way is within $300 range.
  • Therefore, if Ngee Ann Poly was to reimburse the two return tickets, instead of the two one way tickets, the total extra cost incurred would probably not exceed $600 mark.
  • Though I appreciate the opportunity to go and visit my family and friends in Croatia, that now comes at the expense of not being able to visit my imitate family back in Melbourne until October 08 (i.e year and a half since the last visit).
The extra cost that Ngee Ann would incur by paying $600 on top of the value of my expiring contact would:
  • Counteract the 2% GST increase (i.e 2% of 30K is 600)
  • Would represent, circa, $1500 overall increase of the contract package (i.e. the expense that I would have to pay to get a return ticket to Melbourne). Additionally, this could be viewed as the 5% increase of the current contract's value (i.e. 5% of 30K is 1500 - not taking into consideration the loss due to the GST)
  • Moreover, it would show me that Ngee Ann Poly values their staff, and is willing to compromise in the wake of the unusual circumstance (i.e. postgraduate degree and subsequent 5 years of teaching at the well recongised university prior joining the Poly as an IF)
  • Might help make one teacher happier, and I'm sure you are familiar with the saying that goes round here: happy teachers, happy students.
Also as discussed, I hope that it will be possible to have my 30yr old bed mattress with depleted support and stains all-over replaced.

After understanding circumstances of the organisational hierarchy and unavailability of the relevant VL openings, from my perspective, these are very humble things that I'm asking in return - on one side, whereas on the other - I feel like I am providing quality value though continuously dedicated effort of exemplifying teaching (where the first priority is the best interest of students) that is second to none, for a bargain price.

I will keep anticipating means to be found towards a compromise where things can be perceived as more 'fair' and a bit closer to a 'win win' situation.

Regards,

Z
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07/03/2007 11:36 AM
Subject
Re: Air Passage

Dear Z,

We spoke at length on the reasons for not adjusting the International Fellow package and appreciate your understanding on our position. As explained by SY, we are prepared to accede to allow you the use of your flight eligibility for SIN/CROATIA/SIN instead of SIN/MEL/SIN, although this is not our usual practice. You would also appreciate that there is a need for us to maintain internal equity when determining the remuneration package institution wide. We encourage you to consider the other positive aspects of our offer such as the 42 days of annual leave, our work environment, the training opportunities available and the excitement of nurturing our students. Please do let us have your decision by 9 July 2007, Monday.

I have spoken to my colleague, JL from the Estates Management Office with regard to your request for a change of your mattress. She would be in touch with you directly. Thanks.

CT
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Hopefully I'll get SY to allow me to purchase a return tickets by paying for the difference between two-way and one way tickets on my own, as she did for my Melbourne visit. But I doubt it...!

Ps: not being fairly rewarded at work is, unsurprisingly, a common thing.

sicVitaEst...!

Monday, July 02, 2007

Bad seeds persist

On todays date, 11 yeas ago I left the roots. The main cause that lead my parents to pick up my sister and me, together with a suit case for each, was the civil war that was ranging through the country during the 1st 5 years of the 90s. When I first got to NZ, since the news about the war were still very fresh in everyones' memory, the common question was: 'why did you have the war?' My common answer was, and still is: 'cos people are stupid'. It is sad, though not surprising, to now see the same seeds that were cosing the havoc in the region for so long, still be so strong.

But it doesn't stop there; it's not just that we act stupid at our home-home, we like to do it anywhere else where we (attempt to) make a home for ourselves. To make things even worse, that nice phrase Ray use to say to me a lot - just a human - seemingly applies here as well. The fact that we act/are stupid does not makes us special at all.

Just a human - maybe; just sad - definitely...!


Ps: Talk bout sad: Mujo n Haso turned bank robbers; disguised as Muslim women.

flushIt...!

Ps: This little gem of wisdom is the birthday present. Thanks Monkey.

Sunday, July 01, 2007

Mui Ne

Since I could not decline 'the invitation' (yep, they called it an invitation :) to the graduation, I spend few days in the office doing some marking and the usual readings/procrastination. Though, I forgot bout one tiny weeny mini detail - visa!

Even though Nat told me bout it, months in advance, I needed another remainder. Luckily, I joined couple of colleagues for a tea after work on Tuesday, and one of them asked me about visa - thanks Dato. It turned out to be no worries... The next morning, straight after the graduation, I was in a cab to the Vietnam embassy. Need visa the same day? - Ok, you pay me three times the usual fee. The guy pockets the money, and goes to work with the liquid paper, changing the dates on the visa application form that I have just filled in (I presume to make it seem as thought I applied for it weeks ago. (Nope, he was not Singaporean.))

Though visa cost me a bit more, I was quite lucky with the outgoing air-fare. Initially I thought that I couldn't, but none the less I managed to change the departure date for the Jetstar ticket for a fraction of the new ticket cost.

The good thing about my holiday delay was that I got to catch up w/ Mirror (aka Dave). He came back from India, to sort out his paperwork for Shanghai. We were up the whole night before my flight, together w/ his unacquainted love (just one of many - ladies), just mulling over all kinds of BS. My flight was at 7am, so - ignoring the fact that the two of us caught 3h of sleep the night before - there was no point of hitting the horizontal.

Unsurprisingly, I - basically - slept all the way from my apartment till the rest room in Pham Ngu Lao street - backpackers destination in Ho Chi Minh City. And then, after check-in, till dinner time.

After dinner, while walking back to the room, I took a seat at the little square where guys were playing an interesting game, similar to badminton - well a 'ball' looks similar, there is no net, and instead of using the racket, they kick it, and usually they kick it over their head (i.e. the 'ball' first flies over the head and only then they kick it, at times jumping down on their hands, and doing 'donkey kick' - impressive). Just after few minutes of sitting there, something even more impressive happened. A young guy sat next to me and stared asking some questions, bit later there was another, one, and another one... up to 20 at one time. Some had notebooks (and pens), they were making notes... Every night they come there, and start up conversations with tourists, they practice English.

The next day I walked around the city.... Avoiding the traffic and people trying to sell you things you don't want to buy the whole day, during the hot summer day is rather tiring. As of now, after Bangalore, Chennai, Bangkok and HCMC, one day in a big, crowded, main city of a developing country is more then enough of time for me to spend in.

HCMC is same, same... not much different then other huge cities in developing countries of SE Asia I have visited; less chaotic (to my eye) then Bangalore, but more so then Bangkok. I liked Dan's description:

"Ho Chi Minh City, formerly known as Saigon, is the largest city in Vietnam and is located near the Mekong Delta, the mouth of the life vein in SE Asia. The city itself seems to be in constant motion with a soundtrack of techno drum beats, beeping horns, ringing cell phones, and 'xe om' drivers yelling "Moto? Moto?" The only hope a traveler has to survive the bouncing pulse is to move with the current of the city like a leaf rides the swirls and eddies of the river it happens to encounter. Fighting the river only results in exhausting and drowning. Floating with it results in mostly calm travels with the occasional bounce or jostle from an obstacle hidden from view.

If HCMC was to adopt a symbol for itself, it would be the motorbike. A Honda motorbike more specifically. Motorbikes are popular all over Asia, but in HCMC, they make up over 90% of the vehicles on the road. I guess it makes sense because they are the cheapest mode of motorized transportation available, but nonetheless, it creates one wild scene. Watching from the side of the road provides a brief vignette of entertainment, but the real cabaret takes stage when a pedestrian decides it is time to cross the asphalt. The proper method is as follows: Wait for a small break in the stream, then step into the road looking at whichever direction the bikes are coming from. Make sure the drivers see you. Start walking. The drivers will likely encounter you before you have reached the other side, but whatever you do, don't start running. Running only decreases their reaction time. Simply keep walking at a steady pace and let the drivers avoid you. That is that. It's very odd at first, but you do get used to it. What a trip.
Other than that, HCMC is much like is other Asian cousins, but perhaps with a little more neon."

One thing to add to Dan's description is that virtually everybody, especially around the Pham Ngu Lao backpackers area, was pretty aggressive in selling, the 'front room' merchandise (books/suvenires/(moto)bike rides...) as well as the 'back room'. Possibly it was just me, guess a person looking like me, and walking around by himself is equivalent to asking for it. Maybe so, but not in this case.

The next morning at 7:30am I was happy to be on the bus to Mui Ne... I had no idea what Mui Ne is apart from the fact that it is the closest place on the cost that a bus goes to from Pham Ngu Lao.

When initially looking at bus routes, I thought I'll make it up north to Nha Trang via few days stop in Dalat. Though, as it was raining season, and Dalat's high up in the mountains, the info from travelers coming from north was that it's rather 'refreshing' up there, and I only packed my thin wind breaker along, as the only thing with long sleeves. Nha Trang on the other hand, is the city on the beach... more people, more happening then Mui Ne, and chilling out in a quite place sounded more enticing at the time. Though I had no winter clothes with me, and was happy taking it easy, the main reason I ended up stying in Mui Ne the whole time is due to wonderful human beings... or in this case being: Erik, aka Riki. Riki had the seat next to mine on the bus to Mui Ne. First part of the trip, he was happily enjoy scenery while listening to his music on his precious iPod, and I was reading the book. Naturally, eventually we got to chat... and we never really stopped for the whole week.

Regarding carrier, Riki is ex Accenture senior-consultant/PM, Phd holder, with enterpreneurship aspirations. Add to that his interest in BS, and needless to say we had lots of common points to discuss and share ideas about.

Together with my room, I rented a bike for the duration of the stay as well - it was cool cursing around... Riki rented a bike for couple of days; when we went for the exploration of the near by town - called Phan Thiết, with a big fishing harbor/marked; and the next day, of the sand dunes.

Evenings we spend at the small, sea-food, family restaurant; lots of eating, drinking, talking... meeting other travelers.

Though we had many nice chats with French couple that live and work in Tokyo, as well as couple of ABC professional chicks from New York, the note worthy is the crazy British chick who was sitting completely naked, w/ shaved/pierced beaver on the beach amongst other 10-15 ppl. She was there with her boyfriend, whom she met after her girlfriend invited her over for a threesome with her, and at the time her boyfriend. Those were some interesting convers

Unlike me, who 'wonders' around SA Asia with no plan/s/ing, Riki was adding on the personal holiday to his business trip. He had a week, and new exactly what he wanted to do - Kite surfing. Turns out that I stumbled upon place that is "...quickly becoming a South East Asian Mecca for kiteboarding and windsurfing."

That reminded me of my childhood dream - together w/ friends, I used to sit at the shore and watch windsurfers during windy autumn's days - which was revived when talking with Theo in Thailand. Though we were there in an off-season, a no wind season. Next t...

Luong, a friend from unimelb, lives in Hanoi. Since I wasn't gonna make it all the way up North, he managed to arrange a 'business trip' to HCMC. Luckily I got to check my eM in time to leave Mui Ne and meet Lu for the dinner on my last night in Vietnam.

Next time, I'll have to fly to Hanoi and make my way south.

to be continued...!
From Vietnam, 14-2...

Ps: at this blog from a SE-Asia travel writer, I got a video depicting the daily activity the Phan Thiết's market:

Monday, June 11, 2007

Pen spinning

In addition to having to relay on English, when I first arrived to Auckland, I found out about the art of pen flipping - Asian style. I already could do a simple flip that I picked up as a kid watching Top Gun, but that was nothing in comparison what Gorge, the Taiwanese guy at the high school, was able to do. And so from that point on, all the long lectures and study sessions turned into pen-spinning practices. And if I'd see someone do a new trick, I'd ask for instructions, and 'practice', and so on... That now, pen spinning is something like the second nature - as though the hand reaches for the pen and starts flipping it almost on its own will.

Today, as I was mindlessly spinning the pen while reading F1 news, the colleague whom I share the office with told me I should join the pen-spinning competition that will be happening here on the campus. After laughing it off, we talked bout these sort of useless skills people have... He told me that his wife can tie a not of a cherry stem in her mouth - apparently people good at french-kissing can do it. That was impressive, but it pails in comparison to the pen spinning - Ninja style - that puts my 10 years of 'practice' to shame:
looooooongWayToGo...!


Ps: The flipping pen. As always the tool that you use is very important; and in this case, once you find a good one, and you get used to it - that's it, no other can be of substitute. The type of pen I use, I first picked up in the office where I was a chief cleaner. When I would lose it, I'd just pick up another one form one of the office desks. But after I moved to Melbourne, I had to take care of the few that I had as I didn't know where and when would I be able to get a new supply from - the pen obsession. Later, when I'd see someone else using 'the pen' I'd have to have it. First, it happened when a retailer gave me 'the pen' to sign the bill for my vodafone prepaid. It was, 'waaooo you have the pen...' I think there was three of them that were working over there at that time, and all three were laughing at me. But as this was no laughing matter for me, I grabbed four other pens that I found in my bag and traded them for 'the pen'. Later, a fellow student dropped her one - the same one - on the floor, and I played 'finders keepers'. She told me she got it in the K-Mart. I went over there and bought three packs. Though, now in Singapore, I'm left with the last one... few times this semester, I had to go back to the class room to look for my f... lipping pen.

P.p.s.: The pen needs a change of ink often, as spinning somehow distorts it. I 'll need to get me some of this 'space ink' eventually.

Sunday, June 10, 2007

Two Stupid Dogs

Nope, this has nothing to do w/ the Japanese dogs I met. Yesterday, as I was writing the mail to Dan, I stumbled across the youTube link for my all time favorite cartoon show from back in a day.

There was a 2 Stupid Dogs weekend long time ago on Cartoon Network. I always wished that I recorded couple of tapes, and now, after many years, they are back :)

'That's cute, but it's wrong' is the line, n inspirations of similar ones, that ended up as a part of my teaching tool kit. You guessed it, it comes from 2 Stupid Dog's show on teaching.

'Hi in the sky, just like a pie' was something that crept into my vocab years late when English became my daily necessity.

It was back in Auckland when I first started using English, that was also the time when I initially thought about the meaning the word friendship has. Here's nice animated description.

They also have something to say about how to find that spacial one, and what happens in relationships. And, of course, about Love...!

Sunday, June 03, 2007

Techy stuff

It seems that every time I check the news these days, there is a new product, acquisition or partnership by Google. It's gonna be interesting to see what will the connection w/ Apple's iPhone deliver, and the new Map's Street View, does seem a bit too close - impressive, yes; useful, no.

Apple's iPhone debuts next month, if you haven't seen the GUI yet, do take a look.

Not to be outdone, Microsoft promises to bring the GUI capabilities, similar to those of the funky computer Tom Cruise used in Minority Report, to our homes with it's very cool Surface.

The laptop by Ziba and Intel narrows the gap between laptops and smart phones.

...!

Saturday, June 02, 2007

CARPE DIEM

Scito hoc super omnia.

Haec vita est tua una sola.

Dum vita superest,

utere maxime quoque puncto,

momento, et hora quae habes.

Tempus neminem non manet.

Noli manere tempus.

Carpe diem.

"Know this above all else. This is your only life. While life still remains, fully use every point, moment, and hour that you have. Time waits for no man. Don't wait for time. Seize the day." -St. Thomas Acquinas

...!

Ps: Nice story: A young soldier and his commanding officer got on a train together. The only available seats were across from an attractive young woman who was traveling with her grandmother. As they engaged in pleasant conversation, the soldier and the young woman kept eyeing one another; the attraction was obviously mutual. Suddenly the train went into a tunnel and the car became pitch black. Immediately two sounds were heard: the "smack" of a kiss, and the "whack" of a slap across the face. The grandmother thought "I can't believe he kissed my granddaughter, but I'm glad she gave him the slap he deserved." The commanding officer thought, "I don't blame the boy for kissing the girl, but it's a shame that she missed his face and hit me instead." The young girl thought, "I'm glad he kissed me, but I wish my grandmother hadn't slapped him for doing it." And as the train broke into the sunlight, the soldier could not wipe the smile of his face. He had just seized the opportunity to kiss a pretty girl and slap his commanding officer and had gotten away with both! (reference)

Wednesday, May 30, 2007

Getting to the bottom of Chinese Whispers

To close the saga, I arranged 30 second meeting with Director today. Enough time to say: "I apologize for the misunderstanding caused during the last week".

Though, as MirrorMan predicted in his comment->objective 2, Director didn't wanted me to just leave at that and was in deed keen to have the chat. I was rather reluctant to say anything, and at first, I was just listening to her justifying her reasons again for not approving the exception.

Then, as she went dribbling on about the importance of communication, family-like closeness amongst the staff, equalities, fairness, and not-taking things personally, my flesh-bulb flashed, and I realized something that Director I have in common: idealism seem to be a strong trait of our personalities.

I thought to myself, something along the lines of: Ok then, if you really wish to talk and since you are not telling me anything new' and said: 'Don't take this the wrong way, but why do you think I came here to apologize?' After she reverted back for a while to the topic of 'why I cannot skip graduation' - maybe a tendency to act super blur - she slowly came to the word 'threat'.

We had a quite a prolonged chat, involving communication, the cultural differences, adaptation, learning, pursuit of ideals, and of course my deep, hard to understand, mumbling, sexy (one +ve one :) voice. In regards to the topic, I've seen that her main concern, rightly so, was that after the incident, I'll shy away from communicating with her and the rest of the management. She didn't want me to have a 'wrong' perception.

We also established that the mis-communication really started to take shape when she included the lines that implied the joke during our conversation, while paraphrasing what was discussed to my RO. Though, same as for the previous two incidents of similar nature I went though since the arrival, I am to blame, as those lines initially came out of my mouth.

We shook hands on it, and I got another tap on the shoulder. As only it can be on a 'payed holiday', it's all okLah...!


Ps: If I feel as sincerely bout the below eM tomorrow, as I do now, I'll send it even though it sounds like brown-nosing-corporate mumbo-jumbo :

Hi D,

Again, thanks for the chat.

Though, once more, let me reiterate that after RO spoke to me last Friday, from my perspective, everything was fine regarding the happening of the week; and as I've said to PA, I just wanted to have 30 seconds of your time to apologize for it, as it was me who caused it.

None the less, as a bonus, thanks to your willingness to talk things over, I feel more confident that you stand behind the ideals that you communicate, and I wish you best of luck and courage in steering the ICT ship in that direction.

Sincerely,

Z


UPDATE - Director's reply:

It's you guys that keep me and our ICT ship going despite the various challenges ;)

Tuesday, May 29, 2007

Brijacek visit

Katarina and Gazda left last night. They stopped by for few days on their way from NZ to Europe.

As always it was great catching up with long-t-no-see friends. Fun comprised of having interesting conversations and together exploring Spore - yep I still haven't seen much of this place...!
From Brijacek, May07

Monday, May 28, 2007

Feedback on teaching

I learned to do this after the few weeks into the semester. Simply get students to quickly and informally jot down their comments on the three things: in order of importance,

a) what does NOT work
b) suggestions for improvement
c) what works

Thanks to this semester's e-Learning wk, I managed to have Japan trip, though that postponed the feedback session all the way to week 6 and 7.

Well, none the less, in the spirit of better late then never I got it done.

Today, going though the results, a surprising fact emerged. It suggests that I took the lessons learned from the last semester's feedbacks too far this time around. Guess I forgot about that more general rule of: No extremes, everything in moderation (even moderation itself - or is this the exception that proves the rule!? As Johno said, every rule has an exception, which in turn proves the rule).

Last semester I learned to 'let them be' and to teach in that noisy environment where majority pays no attention. This time, apart from the expected comments about speaking too fast, accent, and requesting more practicals, lots of students said that they want me to be more strict, some specifically, to stop them from playing games.

In a way, what is not surprising , is that - as all of us - they just want what they don't have...!


Ps: got eM from Director (on Monday at 2:11am) telling me that she heard that I wanted to talk to her and to feel free to do so, just to mk an appointment with her PA. The idea is still to just quickly apologize in person - no more, no less.

Saturday, May 26, 2007

Chinese checkers

RO talked to Director to tell her something along the lines of me not feeling comfortable thinking that Director thinks that I threatened her. Director said 'what'? Apparently she didn't think I threatened her. Though Director did say something along those lines to my RO, and then my RO took it way more serious then Director intended to express it, and then by the time I heard it... bla bla bal ....

I mean, wtf is this... And to think that Director had slides on that Friday's meeting, just wk ago, titled 'Organisational Communication' - lol

If you don't get a joke, don't laugh - ask. It won't be funny but at least you'll get what the story's about, n avoid all these 'deaf telephone' games. Yea, I know- why simple...

So apparently 'all is cool', the soap opera is over. I found out this yesterday. I'll probably still go to Director and just apologize for the episode. Went to knock on her door yesterday as I was leaving for the wk, but she was gone already.

The lessons:

-don't kid around w/ Director, as much as she tries to create friendly atmosphere.
-there is no communication in the organization, or as colleague said: 'it sucks'. It is not sought after, encouraged, nor appreciated; at least not practically.
-the masks they wear are thick, very thick.
-forget bout job. Focus on 'payed holiday' n

keepLaughing...!

Thursday, May 24, 2007

Dilemma

I'm quite confused w/ all this shit now, don't k wtf to do...

a) Act supper blur (as though nothing happened) n let Director continue to think that I threatened her. If I was boss, n I felt threatened by one of my low/est ranked employees, what would I do, I ask myself? Hmmmmm, well that's easy...

b) Go and discuss situation. -Too confrontational.

c) eM explanation. Too impersonal... lack of context. Though if she misunderstood me in person maybe I have a better chance of getting though like that. - I mean, how much worse can it get?

d) Arrange meeting w/ all the parties involved. Director expressed her concerns of being threatened by IF-I-was-a-teacher teacher to Deputy Director and my RO. So maybe a discussion with 4 people in there would not be as confrontational to any one person.

e) ...?

Ps: just as I was writing this I was interrupted. This very moment Sinthya, a fellow teacher here, left my office. She was here to tell me how her mentees (a 2nd yr class that she is assigned to mentor, and I teach OOAD) are completely confused. They have no idea what's going on, they are concerned. They don't understand the accent. There's a Cro saying that says 'when devil takes a crap, devil shits on one pile'. The best advice I got for teaching here comes from Murray. At the end of my professional development day for IF Murray said: "keep your sense of humor".... Thus, it's not my fault that I was born with intimidatingly good looks n sexy voice.

Whoops, I did it again

And this time to no other then to my boss. Not just my own Reporting Officer, but the RO's boss, the school's director. It turns out that little over the top eM to explain to me the concept of graduation is, according to my RO, because Director felt I threatened her in order to get her to approve my leave - and she doesn't want be subjected to threats from anybody.

The fact that she doesn't like threats is understandable; that she feels that I have threatened her is laughable.

At least I'm laughing about it now. Though the reality is that I might not be laughing for long and I sure wasn't when I heard about it at first this afternoon - it was more like.... haaa... wtf...

Well joke aside, why I might not be laughing for long (around here) is b/c my next contract is in the air. When I went there to talk to her at the end of the day on Monday her PA gave me the new contract (w/ old terms) to sign. Contract was due to be signed on that Monday, again I was like 'why like this?'. PA was not around so the offer was sitting on her desk for a whole week, and she said that she'll buy me more time with HR and then eM me about the new due date.

When my RO told me about Director's feelings after the meeting, my instinct was to go and discuss this bad miscommunication w/ Director straight away. But I didn't, as working in the same way as I would in my own village doesn't work around here - obviously. David explained to me that you don't discuss these sort of confrontational issues by confronting the person whom you had an issue with again. Even though the only reason for talking to them directly again shortly following 'the issue' would be to iron it out, discuss the differences, and apologise if necessary. I tried it twice previously. David's right.

To sprinkle dash of irony onto the scenario, that meeting last Friday was the preparation for this morning's 'Staff Communication Session 2007' - thought they forgot to pout in prefix 'Theatrical', but apparently it's omitted b/c it's the common sense around here. As part of the preparation during that last Friday, Director gave presentation titled 'Organizational Communication'. The presentation was covering topics on congruent communication and managing your boss. Following the presentation Director ran the workshop on how to ask constructive non-threatening, non-self serving questions. According to the lesson from her own presentation, Director failed to take on the visual cues and focused too much on the other 7% of communication - apparently 93% is visual - namely: 'Then I'll just go to HR, and claim it there.'

iiiiiiitttttttt'sssAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaJJJOOOOKKKKEEEEEEE...!


Ps: Lose transcript from 5min meeting on Mon:

PA: Z's here to see you. (To depict the context a bit: the moment PA opened Director's door, until I left it was all ha ha ha... basically every sentence finished with a laughter/smile/giggle. At one point of interaction, not sure what was discussed (hope not the tonality of my voice) she taped my shoulder - I noticed that as I founded it surprising, and also as apparently she's reading all the psycho stuff (as well:)).

me: aren't you going to say something more for the introduction, after all that interrogation just now (PA asked me all about why am I seeing the director before she walked me into her office).

me: Hi thanks for this. (pointing at the new contract PA just handed to me moments ago. PA's exiting the office).

D: I was wondering whose is that deep sexy voice on the other side of the door (she heard me while I was chating w/ the PA about the need for at least a month more before I can sign the contract (so I can find some other offer in order to get some bargening power with target of getting better contract - more $) ).

me: Thanks, but I only hope students can understand it (my voice, and thus what I'm saying).

me: I was gonna catch up w/ you after our staff meeting on Friday, but didn't get to, so hence I'm here now. During your presentation you mentioned that graduation is compulsory. That was a surprise to me...

D: some BS on importance of graduation.

me: the thing is I booked my ticket in February for a trip to Vietnam for the duration of the break.

me: blabbing on about how I understand the pressures are there that I don't see, setting precedence, rules and so on... but I am' just an IF-i was a-teacher teacher, it's my 1st year, I didn't know...

D: some more BS on how all staff are seen as equal 'we are all equal'.

me: that sounds nice (ha ha ha)

D: what do you mean? We treat everybody the same..... some more about importance and precedences.

D: reschedule; other's have done so as well.

me: my ticket cannot be changed. what do I do about that?

D: ~~

me: I'll just get you to pay for my ticket then (ha ha).

D: we cannot do that

me: Then I'll just go to HR and claim it there (approving claims is of the things that HR actually does around here. Though it wouldn't work in a way I had in mind (get full re-found), not in a million yrs - I know it, she knows it, HR knows it, everybody knows it - hence funny)

D: ha ha ha (or was it my imagination seeing her laugh)

D: I'll talk to your RO and deputy D, and then I'll eM u.

me: thanking her for the time and leaving by saying that I hope she can make everybody happy.


Pps: Communication is what other person perceives you've said, not what you say. (ref?)

Tuesday, May 22, 2007

Lucky no more

On one of those in/fameous staff meetings that was held last Friday, the school Director mentioned the graduation ceremony which will be held on the 13th of June. She also said that the ceremony is COMPULSORY for ALL staff. - Say WHAT?! It was only month ago that my RO was telling me how lucky I was w/ my annual leaves and now this:

Problem: I've bought my ticket for Vietnam travel between the 9th and 24th June back in February when Jetstar had promotion.

As I didn't get to catch up with Director after the meeting, I spoke to her yesterday. Naturally, I have first discussed the issue with my RO who told me at the time when there was issue with the leave for the Thailand trip that in case something comes up again in regards to applying for the annual leave that I'll have to address it to Director myself.

So I did. Director said she was gonna discuss it further with my RO and the Deputy Director, and then email me. So she did:

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Z,

To be able to graduate from the polytechnic with their diplomas has been the ultimate goal of all our students. Graduation ceremony to them is a very important occasion, the culmination of years of effort and learning from us. Same for the staff, we worked so hard to help our students in the hope of seeing them graduate. Graduation is the time when we gather together en mass for the last time, to congratulate and wish them all our best. Hence, Graduation Ceremony, year after year, is taken as a serious affair that all staff (academic + support) are expected to attend. I am sure we all want to see our students during this glory moment of theirs and of ours too. I recall that one of our IFs even delayed her trip back to the US just to attend the graduation, to witness her students graduate.

We have also checked our record that in the recent Lunar New Year, the school has given you a grace - one-off exception to be away during the hectic JAE and exam processing period. Hence, we regret to inform you that we won't be able to make a 2nd exception as we have to be consistent and fair across, just as much as we would like to help you. All staff have been told that if they intend to take any block leave, they should check with their RO in advance and steer clear of important poly/school events which are all pre-scheduled in the Neverland Activity Calendar. As soon as we receive the confirmed date of ICT's Graduation Ceremony from the Acad Admission office, we have also sent an email to all staff so that they can plan for their vacation around this important date.

Note: Dirs and staff have also fedback to Acad Admission's office to explore if the graduation ceremony can be held during term time and not during the poly vacation break so that staff can take their vacation for the entire two weeks.
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I was trying the hole day to catch up w/ my RO to discuss this 'corporate jargon to the max'. But being unable to so, I wrote the reply that's mainly for my own egoistic satisfaction - thanks to the corporate culture around here, it will (probably) never reach the three intended recipients:


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Dear Director,

Thank you for taking my enquiry into consideration.

Though I have to accept your decision professionally and with understanding, it will come to no surprise to you that it invokes great disappointment.

I expected that my case merits an exception due to, as already mentioned, the following:

a) This is my 1st go-around at the school, I genuinely did not know about 'all staff' compulsory attendance at the ceremony until the last Friday's staff meeting.

b) I'm currently in my 2nd semester, after teaching 1st and 2nd year students. Therefore, even though I can appreciate the team spirt and the support of the students on this very important occasion, none of those graduating this June would have been thought by me. Hence, my joy and sense of pride could not be comparable to those who worked so hard to help them personally during the last 3 years in the hope off seeing them graduate. From a student perspective, an added potential support that would come from a presence of the unknown random face is questionable.

c) The email notification to all staff so that they can plan for their vacation around this important date was sent on 23rd of February, whereas I have purchased my ticket on the 1st of February.

d) The above mentioned email (c) did not specify 'compulsory' clause, hence this issue is only brought forward now. Plese note that I alwasy check with my RO before applying for a leave of any duration, though not months in advace.

e) I bought the ticket that early because it was on the promotion. None the less, with taxes included the fair still added up to be 20% of my monthly IF salary. As the ticket does not allow for delayed travel time, it will now be forfeited w/o any reimbursement.

f) Even though I appreciate the exception in which I was allowed to take the leave during the recent Lunar New Year, I don't see it as a grace that was given to me, as to my understanding there was a miss-communcaiton between other parties involved.

g) How will I be able to forget about this email in order to enjoy the celebration, and hence contribute to it positively on the 13th of June 2007!?

Sincerely,

Unhappy, for the day, ICTan
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I can understand that someone can get so worked up about the graduation - and I appreciate half a page explanation of it's purpose and importance before getting to the point of the email (NOT - in case sarcasm's too subtle) - but can they understand that there are those who don't...?

Wednesday, May 16, 2007

Land of Rising Sun

Land of harmony and peace. Land of contradictions. Land of volcanoes, geysers, hot baths, mountains and forests... -> the New Zealand look-alike. Land of 3G (clamshell) mobiles - ONLY. Land of no money exchange, no acceptance of credit cards nor international ATM cards... n of course the land of sushiiii!

Pere said lick, suck do whatever necessary to be present at the wedding. My RO (Reporting Officer) said I was lucky, again. No, not lucky 'like that'; lucky when it comes to taking an annual leave at the time when other staff cannot (one of the benefits of being an IF (i was a) teacher). The lucky break came in the form of an e-Learning week. During the week students do not have to come to school, instead they do the work on-line, and so my RO kindly approved my trip (even though some rules had to be bend a bit - thanksPam).

And off I was for a week in Japan.

Pere lives in the place close to the small town, Taketa. In this area tourists, especially the ones that need a passport to get there are rather rare, hence the unavailability of things such as money exchange; and the place is small, thus no credit-cards. Fortunately for me, even though I was running late - as usual - I got some cash out and bought some yen at Spore airport; and also Pere agreed to take on yet another currency. By the way, though he was kidding about opening his own currency exchange business, Pere actually earns his rice by teaching English in different schools - some 15-20 of them - that are located in the area. My initial though was that after the wedding I'll go and travel around the island, Kyūshū, as the love birds would fly off for their honeymoon. Yep, that's what happens when one thinks, s/he (probably) needs to re-think it... The love birds postponed the honeymoon till August and Hiromi had to be back at work (library at one of those 15-20 schools) only few days after the wedding.

Thanks to these circumstances I got an opportunity to spend more time with Pere (once more, 'Thank You' to Hiromi for letting me spend time w/ her hubby during the 1st wk of their marriage - actually I felt quite uncomfortable bout this at the beginning - it just did not seem right; they had to reiterate to me number of times that it was life as usual for them, and the ceremony was more of a formality then anything else). And not only did I get to spend time with Pere, but instead of going around and doing the usual touristy things, I got to spend time with his in-laws. I got a chance to see (the sample of) 'the real' Japan.

I'll talk more about how great I think both, Pere's family and in-laws are some other time, here I'll just mention one of the in-laws, Muku. Muku is the 13 yr old dog that is adored for many things out of which none relates to dog-smarts. Pere's nick names for Muku range from psycho to 'professor'. Well, all this I found out after Mike - Pere's brother - and I decided to take Muku for a walk on the morning after the wedding. As we were walking the road that leads towards the top of the hill we ran into two white dogs standing on our path. Thinking we can pass by them w/o much trouble was quickly proven wrong as both the white dogs and Muku were very keen to get together. Not to sniff, kiss, or exchange regards in any way, but to kill each other. Muku, especially, was keen on clamming the alpha dog of the hill status. After managing to pull him away initially, the two white dogs caught up with us and the brawl started again. This time, as I was trying to protect Muku by pulling him away, my right leg found its way between him and his arch enemies so he stuck he's canines into my calf, upon which he copped a blow into the head from me - reflex. Thereupon, we ran back without stopping to the house. By that time my leg was rather bloody and the thing did not look pretty. Though as it wasn't hurting that much I knew it wasn't bad, but I was wondering if I needed an 'after a dog has bit you' injection. Unfortunately as Pere and Hiromi were not around, we needed a local doctor's skillful use of Japanese-English dictionary to explain to me that the dog was just recently vaccinated and that I was safe. While at the doctor's they cleaned the wound (including some shaving) and proscribed me little bag full of medicine (antibiotics, pain killers and killers of pain killers' side effects; I only used the 1st one).

Luckily, after the bleeding stopped, there was nothing impeding my walking and I was good to go. The next day Pere's patents and brother left for their Japan trip, after we dropped them at the train station we went on to check out the Monkey Mountain and a bit of Oita. Wednesday was the active day when we covered quite some walking distance on an uneven terrain. First, early in the morning, as part of Muku's walk, we climbed the hill near Hiromi's place (now I was bit very as he would run by my leg, especially the bandaged one, though he acted as though nothing happened - asshole :). Following this, we visited ruins of the Samurai's castle at the top of the hill near Pere's house. We took Pere's neighbor's dog along for this walk. After lunch, at Hiromi's, we jumped in the car, Muku accompanying us again, and drove to Mt Kanji (or something rather similar - ?) where we climbed 2 peaks. Shortly after the dinner when we got back to Pere's place we crashed at the floor, pleasantly exhausted and fallen a sleep straight away - at least me, that is.

12+ hours later we woke up. And following omelet, salami and cheese brunch we hit the road - no dogs this time - for near by prefecture in search of the beach. After driving south for couple of hours Pere wasn't sure at which intersection to turn east in order to get to the beach that he had in mind. And as he couldn't contract Hiromi for directions he turned left towards Tomi Peninsula. After a while on the road towards the Pacific coast Pere planted a seed for pleasant surprise to himself; he said that there's (probably) nothing worth driving-for over there. What we found over there was the great little bay with no one around; clear, and very refreshing water; and rocks for easy climbing.

After two days at Tomi Peninsula it was up to me to choose the activity for my last day. The choice was between touristy thing in Fukuoka or rice planting w/ Hiromi's family.
From Japan, 5-13May07